Naniniwala ba kayo sa love over the internet? Na kahit minsan mo lang nakilala sa chat ay may posibilidad na mahalin mo ang taong sa virtual world mo lang nakikita? Well, i could speak for myself na pwedeng mangyari ang bagay na yan ngunit may hangganan. Maari kayong magmahalan ngunit dapat ay matatag ang inyong tiwala sa isa't-isa. Aminin man natin o hindi ang isang relasyong nabuo lang over the net ay isang bagay na hindi pinaniniwalaan ng nakararami dahil para sa kanila ay isang lokohan ang pumatol sa relasyon over the net.
Maraming mga bagay ang dapat mong isaalang-alang para lang mapanatili ang isang matatag na relasyon na binuo lamang ng internet.
Una na dyan ay ang tiwala Trust. Lagi nating tatandaan higit saan pa man ay pagkatiwalaan natin ang taong ating minamahal dahil kung may tiwala ka sa kanya everything will fall into it's right place! Secondly, pagiging Honest. I know it's a cliche, sino pa nga ba sa panahon ngayon ang honest? may natitira pa nga ba? kung meron man baka nakadisplay na sila sa museum labelled as "THE ONLY HONEST PERSON LEFT IN THE WORLD! " But then, if you are sincere enough you can be honest to the person whom you love most without knowing you are doing it. And also, being Loyal to your partner falls under to being honest. Remember if you are not entertaining anybody else except the one who owns your heart, you are being honest to him. Lastly is Respect. This is the most fundamental element for the two person who's in love with each other, because if you do have this all will follow.
If you have respect you can trust your partner. If you respect your partner you will be honest. And, if you respect him you will be loyal.
By reading this, you may say that this is just simple. But, in practical application nobody can do this.
I can admit to myself that I, myself experienced a relationship over the net. It is not very easy, temptations are just around the corner. But I am very thankful that i have a partner who is very supportive and very understanding. That is why i am trying to do my best to become the best partner as possible.
One more thing that you have to consider in having a love affair over the net is for both of you. Leave the circulation where both of you meet and continue your relationship as a normal lover outside the virtual world and i can assure you that you will have a successful love story if not perfect. I have friends who did the same thing and now they are very happy living with each others arm.
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